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[livejournal.com profile] eastlondongoths pub meet, Friday 24th September, 6:30pm, Prospect of Whitby, 57 Wapping Wall, Wapping E1W 3SH.

Today I got my final payslip. They have apparently given me pay in lieu of notice, which reads like "you can't quit — we fire you!" Still, it's an extra Thousand Quid in my final pay.

This doesn't mean the drinks are on me, because, as always happens when I get an unexpected chunk of pay, I have some Extreme Dentistry to take up just about all of it quite nicely.

After the checkup on Monday, today I went in for assorted fillings (some receding gums and an old filling that's cracked) and a clean. The moral of this exercise is: floss religiously. The right of my face is still numb.

I felt unusually relaxed in the dentist's chair. I had a really good dentist in Melbourne (Zelman Lew at the South Yarra Dental Clinic, to be precise), who was pretty much a dentistry geek. Like the one in Cryptonomicon. I could trust him implicitly, and also there was no way anyone could call me, ask me stupid questions or anything while I was in the chair with half a ton of pointy metal in my mouth. So I could actually rest. This reaction appears to have carried through to a dentist I don't actually have any prior experience of. Even after the first shot didn't anaesthetise me sufficiently.

We discussed options for my grey front tooth and its white but chipped twin. He thinks veneers are crap — fragile, may come off with crunchy eating and only last a year or two anyway — and will do one if I really want, but strongly disrecommends them. There are three options for crowns: the cheap NHS one and two private ones. "I'm not allowed to tell you the NHS one is bad, but ..." Each front tooth: £400. He wants to do them as a pair (and they do both need doing): £800. FX: winged twenty-pound notes flying into the sunset.

[livejournal.com profile] arkady came along in the quest to cope with her severe phobia of dentists and was Very Good, sitting quietly in the waiting room.

Then we bought a shredder. MUWAHAHAHA etc. Instant rat bedding!

Also, Tuesday I bought [livejournal.com profile] redcountess a very nice office chair, just like mine. Like a bunch of flowers for the bum.

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Date: 2004-09-23 07:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jasontheknight.livejournal.com
The Prospect of Whitby is MY pub, and no one else is allowed to go to it! Sure, I haven't lived in Wapping for nearly 2 years, but it's MY goddamned pub!

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Date: 2004-09-23 07:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-jacquelin411.livejournal.com
arkady came along in the quest to cope with her severe phobia of dentists and was Very Good, sitting quietly in the waiting room.

Haha... did you shriek and scream while arklady was sitting out in the waiting room? ;)

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Date: 2004-09-23 08:02 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] karen2205
One of the reasons I dislike dentists is that I seem to have come across those who insist upon asking me questions while I've got a mouth full of metal.

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Date: 2004-09-23 08:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jasontheknight.livejournal.com
I'd give myself at least evens :P

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Date: 2004-09-23 08:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sclerotic-rings.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] arkady has a phobia of dentists? I honestly wish that she'd had the chance to meet my first dentist: thanks to him, I honestly enjoy trips to the dentist. (It's not that I enjoy the pain or anything: it's just that Dr. Peters did such a wonderful job of explaining everything to me and doing such a good job that I didn't need novocaine for a filling until I was 12.) And seeing as how I need to get two crowns and a replacement filling, not having a fear of dentists is very important right now.

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Date: 2004-09-23 08:09 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] vampwillow
pay in lieu of notice reduces their (and your) NI bill as the limit will be applied on one month rather than payments calculated on two months.

It also means that you will need to pay a NI 'stamp' for the period between the 'actual' end of this job and the start of the next.

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Date: 2004-09-23 08:28 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] karen2205
Don't worry about it till the end of the tax year is my advice.
You need to pay a certain amount of NI contributions in the year for the year to count for state pension purposes. If at the end of the year you've not paid enough (and I suspect you will have done, even missing a month) and you're in danger of not having enough years to get a full state pension, then you can pay voluntary contributions to make up the difference.

If you want to know how you're doing by way of state pension entitlement, request a Pension Forecast from the Pensions Service - see http://www.pensions.gov.uk

Tax returns aren't hard to complete - I can do my mother's in a couple of afternoons - you just need to keep hold of your P45 and P60 (and P11D if you get one) (on that note, remember to give Parts 2&3 of your P45 to your new employer when you start work) and to ask your bank/building societies to send you section 352 certificates for each of your accounts (these are records of the interest you've been paid - you don't actually *need* them, but it's much easier than fiddling through passbooks and statements to find the correct info).

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Date: 2004-09-23 09:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] echo-echo.livejournal.com
"Like a bunch of flowers for the bum"

Better than a bunch of grapes.

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Date: 2004-09-23 10:48 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] redcountess
Our new dentist is lovely - we had both been dreading seeing a dentist under the NHS - I'm sure if [livejournal.com profile] arkady can desensitise herself enough, she will be comfortable with him.

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Date: 2004-09-23 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] latexiron.livejournal.com
We will probably be there a bit late - but then, after all, it's only 50 yards from home. I suppose we should tidy the house a bit in case anyone wants to come back.

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Date: 2004-09-23 03:50 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] hairyears.livejournal.com
City Dental Clinic on Chiswell Street might be cheaper.

They sorted out two very bad teeth for me two years ago, and we have a continuing programme of repairs on all the disintegrating profit-driven fillings I have from the 'Drill-and-Fill' era of British dentistry.

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Date: 2004-09-23 03:52 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] hairyears.livejournal.com
I could go but I'd be in my work clothes... which are indeed black, but not quite Goth. Will I know anyone there? I certainly know the Prospect of Whitby, and am rather fond of the place.

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Date: 2004-09-23 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severina-242.livejournal.com
ahh, as I face another day with aching jaws, I really envy the fact that you have public and private options for dentistry. I'm rapidly losing bits of tooth due to 16 year old Aussie dental hospital students using me as practise during my dole/Aussie recession years....

Go two shiny white front teeth! I know there is that temptation to blow the money on toys, but hey.

I also have the same problem as you - the first shot *never* numbs me. Next time I'm opting for the gas as I've found when they pump me with more shots, parts of my face swell alarmingly and I feel inclined to pummel the dentist after I arise from the chair.

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Date: 2004-09-23 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] death4breakfast.livejournal.com
That sounds awfully high for a pair of crowns of that sort. In the US here I wouldn't expect to pay more than about two to three hundred USD a piece for them.

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Date: 2004-09-23 09:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arkady.livejournal.com
He would never be cruel to me in that way. He knows all too well that I have a past propensity for jumping out of windows when confronted with needles and/or dentists.

It's not actually a laughing matter.

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Date: 2004-09-23 09:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arkady.livejournal.com
You'll know me.

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Date: 2004-09-23 09:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arkady.livejournal.com
I have an extreme phobia of dentists. The first time I ever saw a dentist was at age 14, when I already had a well-established phobia of needles. She decided that the shells of my baby incisors (which had ridden up the gum as the adult toothe emerged, and would likely have fallen off by themselves anyway in due course) had to come out.

It took three people to hold me down in the chair when she came towards me with the needle, and I've had a phobia of dentists ever since. This was the first time I've been able to even sit in the waiting room without throwing up or passing out in fear. I did dissociate a bit, but at least I didn't have a panic attack.

I don't think I'm going to be able to actually sit in a dentist's chair for some time however.

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Date: 2004-09-24 09:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] death4breakfast.livejournal.com
Yeah, American dentistry is something that we're particularly proud of. You know in a, "Well, the world may hate us, but at least we have even teeth," sort of way.

The price I mentioned was paying cash privately.

Frankly I can't even remember a time when I've had dental insurance. We've always paid out of pocket for dental work.

Before you go buying tickets though, I should probably check with my dentist and get a rough quote on a current price.

It's been a while since I had one of my front teeth replaced by a crown and I doubled the amount of my estimate based on that, but checking would be worth-while. Let me know if you'd like me to go ahead and do that.

High for crowns

Date: 2004-09-24 11:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mouseworks.livejournal.com
I've looked into the price of a bridge for two teeth and it was something like $1800 to $4000 depending on whether the work was done at a dental school or at a real dentists office. I wouldn't be surprised if crowns weren't close to that in most urban areas.

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Date: 2004-09-24 09:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-jacquelin411.livejournal.com
I wouldn't think that he would be cruel to you.

I've had a lot of problems this last year with my physical health and I find that a sense of humor puts some of us at ease about our situations and also seems less "oh woe is me" to the dear friends that we have in our lives.