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Dear Pippa,

I'm writing to you as one of your constituents. I am a non-trans woman, who believes that trans women are also women. I'm sure you've had a lot of emails about this today. No doubt the LibDems are working on a reply which I would be happy to see, but I'd also appreciate your own thoughts.

Yesterday the government finally revealed the new updated EHRC Guidance to the Equality Act. There are updates to several areas, but the ones I want to talk about are those affecting trans people.

There is an attempt to say that gender reassignment is still a protected characteristic, but the vast majority of the changes are about how service providers and others are now not only able to, but *expected* to exclude trans people from the places which match their lived gender, or in some cases also from places which match their official sex at birth.

I know you have lovely trans colleagues who you were campaigning with in Cambridge recently. I know you don't think Yannifer should be expected to use the men's toilets. But according to this guidance we are all expected to treat her as a man from now on, and we are asked to believe that this has always been the legal reality of the Equality Act, and that previous guidance was merely mistaken in ever having said otherwise.

Trans people with GRCs have sworn an oath that they intend to live their lives going forward in their acquired gender, and if this guidance is accepted then they will no longer be able to do so.

The guidance itself even accepts that there is no way for any of us to adequately prove to someone who asks whether we are in fact trans or not. I could be refused service if someone *thinks* I am trans, and does not believe me when I say that I am not.

I am not surprised to see this guidance, because it has been clear for some time that this has been coming. I am still shocked and appalled that the government is just going ahead with it.

Please can I ask you to speak up. Speak up for trans people. Speak up for clubs and services which wish to remain trans inclusive. Speak up for other women, who will experience harassment because they are suspected of being trans, but even more so for trans people who will experience increased harassment and fear too. Speak up for those who are now excluded from taking part in sport, even if their clubs and leagues welcome them.

The government could legislate to change this, to change the Equality Act to mean when it had always been understood to mean. They choose not to. I hope you and the LibDems can choose better.

Yours sincerely,

Eleanor Blair
Great Shelford, Cambridge, CB22

podcast friday

May. 22nd, 2026 07:06 am
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I kind of struggled deciding on an episode this week, but I'm going to go back to one from a couple weeks ago that I'm still thinking about a lot, A Bit Fruity's "Clavicular Is a Symptom, Not The Cause (with F.D. Signifier and Kat Tenbarge)." I love it when F.D. Signifier guests on podcasts; I would watch his YouTube but I don't really watch a lot of YouTube so it's nice when he does a thing I can listen to on the subway.

Anyway if you've been under a rock or don't have this shit forced on you, Clavicular is a 20-year-old influencer who promotes young incels hitting their face with a hammer (here is a quick explanation from mainstream media describing how most of us olds learned about him). It's kind of amazing just how completely far-right internet memes have made it into pop culture; like, I will say things like "[blank]maxxing" ironically despite being a normie old. This kid was one of the high school students who graduated under covid lockdown, if you want to know how recent all of this is. 

Oh, he also has an eating disorder and is autistic. Things I didn't know. Apparently at least some of the appeal for viewers is watching this kid navigate social situations and failing miserably. Which is fucking gross and awful. 

Looksmaxxing and Clavicular are things I learned about against my will, which is the case for everyone in this episode. The whole trend is weird and gross and misogynistic and racist and awful. Which is why the compassion and analysis that Matt, F.D., and Kat bring to the discussion is so important. They have compassion for Clavicular, who may be a terrible person but is also barely out of his teens and needed help and didn't get it. They have more compassion for the boys who follow this kind of content. This is a look into the nihilism of young men, and the degree to which it's an understandable reaction to a world that basically gaslights them. 

Anyway, if you have kids in your life, it's definitely worth a listen.

2026/072: Disfigured — Amanda Leduc

May. 22nd, 2026 08:33 am
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2026/072: Disfigured — Amanda Leduc

Why, in all of these stories about someone who wants to be something or someone else, was it always the individual who needed to change, and never the world?

Subtitled 'On Fairy Tales, Disability, and Making Space', this is partly a memoir of the author's experience of cerebral palsy, and partly a survey of the ways in which fairytales 'other' people with disabilities, people who don't look right, people who are different.Read more... )

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On Wednesday evening, I caught up with Derek M (and finished their book the night before), and we ventured to see Jimmy Wales in conversation with Sally Warhaft at the Capitol Theatre. As the co-founder of Wikipedia, Jimmy described the community (first priority), history, the challenges, and future of Wikipedia in a very charming and perhaps overly optimistic style. Afterwards, I picked up a copy of his new book, "The Seven Rules of Trust", which I will review at a later date. At this stage, I will note that he uses a model based on "Authenticity", "Logic", and "Empathy", which seems valuable, and which ultimately reflects "Reliability". I foresee a more complex relationship between the dimensions as well; for example, suggestions from a source that is high in authenticity and logic would be good for factual advice, but you wouldn't use them for relationships. Likewise, high empathy but low logic would be someone you could reveal yourself to, but you might not want to take their advice!

Last night, I was a guest at a dinner at the Pullman to celebrate the tenth anniversary of the sister-state province relationship between Sichuan and Victoria. It was one of those high-level Chinese functions that included numerous politicians, diplomats, and business representatives, along with about 400 people in attendance, and an artistic parade of opera performers, pipa players, singers, and folk dancers. Being a Sichuan event, the cuisine was of superb quality, as was the baijiu. The event contrasted with the Sister Paul gig I went to earlier, an androgynous Japanese punk duo who played harmonic surf-punk and Ramones covers at breakneck speed, but somehow I manage to live comfortably with such juxtapositions. I'll be seeing them again on Monday.

A few other events I must mention: Fiona's birthday gathering at Mr Wilkinson on Saturday was superb, with wonderful company; I spent most of my time with the host, Meredith, Luna, and Clive. It was just the sort of company I wanted to be in after attending the Isla Bell rally earlier in the day, with its deeply emotional plea for justice. The night previous I had been at the Odean in Richmond to an Spandau Ballet and Ultravox "Vienna" tribute night with the album performed with Steven Wilson's mixes and magnificent surround-sound; it was also an opportunity to catchup with old Willsmere friend, Adam D. Dating further back, which I haven't previously mentioned, Nitul and I went to see the play at St Martin's "Curse of the House of Atreus". With a minimal set, the young actors really added a flourish to this, the most tragic of all Hellenic myths.
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2026/071: Planesrunner — Ian McDonald

It was a deep, dark shock, a fist clenched around the heart, for Everett to realise that every decision he had made, every action he had taken, had caused someone to pay a high and terrible price. It was never like that in the action movies. There were never any consequences. [loc. 3205]

On a rainy December night in London, thirteen-year-old Everett is walking along the Mall to meet his father Dr Tajendra Singh: they're going to a lecture on nanotechnology at the ICA. Then Tajendra is abducted, leaving Everett with a few photos of the car in which he was taken away -- and, soon, an email that plunges Everett (named after Hugh Everett, who developed the Many Worlds theory) into a complex and perilous quest Read more... )

Reading Wednesday

May. 20th, 2026 06:58 am
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Just finished: Five Points On an Invisible Line by Su J Sokol. I don't have a lot to add since I'd almost finished it last week, but the final setpiece, a massive, multi-tactic demonstration, is really well done. 

Currently reading: Written On the Dark by Guy Gavriel Kay. Time to start Aurora Awards reading. TBH I started one of the best novels—won't say which one—and found it very much unparsable in the way that some secondary world fantasy is just too much for me, so I moved on to this one. I'm around halfway through and the jury's still out.

This one is set in Fantasy Medieval France and follows a tavern poet who's recruited by the local provost to help him solve the murder of a duke who is running the country, since his brother, the king, suffers from an undisclosed madness. Great concept, cool characters, the setting is a breath of fresh air, and I cannot argue that Kay is a superb prose stylist.

And yet I almost always bounce off his work. There's a certain Tolkienesque narrative distance that I think works for Tolkien but feels peculiarly pre-modern. Objectively, I respect this as a deliberately alienating technique, but it means that I don't bond with it in quite the same way, and takes a tremendous feat of writing elsewhere to make me love it. It's entirely possible that this will hit that and I'm giving it a chance but so far I'm feeling that I like what he's doing but don't feel emotionally invested.

as the seasons turn

May. 20th, 2026 11:57 am
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Strange days, the counterpoint of long days spent teaching guitar or practising it and trying to stay on top of all the things that you have to stay on top of, while the world outside burns -or threatens to burn.

Now sitting at my school of Wednesdays; half of my charges are not doing their lesson today because they're in exams, some others are away on school outings.

Preparing (or trying to) for concert on Friday. At this point you always feel like you're playing your worst ever; hopefully it won't be like that on the day.

Completely missed the whole Eurovision thing, which so many of my friends follow with dedication -I just don't get it, that kind of pop show doesn't do it for me and in the shape of a competition... even less.

Half of my friends seem to already be in Leipzig for the WGT. I kept saying I would go next year, every year but realising it was an expense I couldn't afford and it needed a bit of organising things that I most often are bad at and don't have time or energy for. Would like to go but every year the chances that I will do it one day are less and less. Not that there aren't lots of things to keep me occupied.
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2026/070: The Paranormal Ranger — Stanley Milford Jr

Just because I cannot fully explain the event doesn't make me think it wasn't real... my experiences with the paranormal have taught me to coexist with mystery when I must.

Subtitled 'A Navajo Investigator’s Search for the Unexplained', this is Stanley Milford Jr's account of his life as a Navajo Ranger -- a law enforcement officer in the Navajo reservation, responsible for a vast area with a relatively low population. While much of his work was mundane, there were some cases that (at least in the eyes of those involved) had a paranormal aspect: skinwalkers, aliens, hauntings, Bigfoot. Read more... )

L&O season 3: Episode 10

May. 19th, 2026 07:42 pm
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The season finale was...again, not bad. In general I'd say that season 3 is relatively strong by L&O standards. Not by like, good TV standards, but entirely watchable.


XOXO )

I hope you've enjoyed watching this garbage show with me. See you next season!

life is a highway

May. 18th, 2026 06:21 pm
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The Moving of Dad: The Saga Continues

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***

Saturday night I got woken up in the middle of the night by Lord Brock making a bunch of weird yipping noises I had never heard before. He finally stopped and I fell back asleep.

Sunday morning I was having coffee at my desk and I turned my head to look over at him - and there is a decapitated mouse on the floor.

Said mouse was disposed of immediately. Lord Brock was given treats for his service. I remain concerned about the location of the missing head.

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House stuff is kinda stalled, both because of being busy with dad stuff and because the weather is refusing to cooperate. Everything I want to do right now requires it to not rain for several days in a row, and the weather just will not do that.

Mind you, I could probably be doing more to start getting rid of all the crap in my house. Maybe I should start reaching out to shelters this week to see what they need and I can cart it over this coming weekend.

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May. 18th, 2026 02:05 pm
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Bath time is going as well as can be expected.
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Gideon picking up language from YouTube is hilarious. I explained to him yesterday that you can use the right trigger to drift in Mario Kart and he replied "Bro! That's sick!"