This poll on gaydar was requested by
commonpeople, who wondered if he set people's off (consensus: he doesn't, and will have to keep namedropping his boyfriend in situations it might become an issue).
Unique snowflakes are encouraged to expand on the above in comments. Note: if married and monogamous, that doesn't necessarily make you not bi any more.
When I'm going out, I appear to be out. My straight male friends tend to greet me with a kiss. When I'm in office clothes, I barely trigger people's gothdar. (Which should be the next poll.)
frequency
Date: 2006-01-23 08:23 pm (UTC)Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-24 05:22 pm (UTC)I can go for a very VERY long time though. But the offers come in here and there. So I go without by choice.
Last I'd heard you had a lovely lady and were happy. Hope you're not unhappy 'n' such, mate.
Come join me, be GAY and fruitful! Woohoo!
Nephilim
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 01:17 am (UTC)p.s. now you've got me wondering who this lady is - did you hear this anytime recently?
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 03:32 pm (UTC)Happier without the drugscene anyway...
I have DJed in quite a few places now but it's prolly someone else you've heard of because the people I DJ for never credit me anywhere no matter what input I've had into their night.
I'll shut up now. Had a very bad day at work. Hard work being a teacher. When you aren't actually one. Arseholes should stop giving me marking and so on...
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 05:09 pm (UTC)Your info is way out of date - she cheated on me and dumped me for someone else.
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 08:19 pm (UTC)Though I want a women baaaaad. When I'm ready...
I don't-teach a number of subjects, normally english which is what I'm studying towards with my Open University degree. Apparently my idiot boss, (he has ASD like our kids, blatantly) came cowering to my Mum today (she's the head of year 7 and teaches Maths, very higly respected) and she gave him a complete earbashing for treating me the way he does and for not noticing I get bullied at work and want to leave! He says he doesn't want to lose me. I shall play on this. I have had enough...!
Can add you to my LJ if you want. I only don't delete the posts which tell people what I like. It's a positive thing that makes me feel less shite! Also, people don't know enough of the good things...
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 08:30 pm (UTC)Does this mean you make a variety of posts, but only keep the more positive ones in the long term?
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 08:31 pm (UTC)Being able to re-read negative and angry posts I have made depresses me.
I am also very careful what I write now because I have had the journal hacked before and the contents which were marked as private, spread across forums...
I have met some arseholes, haven't I...
All good now though!
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 08:35 pm (UTC)Added to friends list now, btw.
Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-25 08:40 pm (UTC)