This poll on gaydar was requested by
commonpeople, who wondered if he set people's off (consensus: he doesn't, and will have to keep namedropping his boyfriend in situations it might become an issue).
Unique snowflakes are encouraged to expand on the above in comments. Note: if married and monogamous, that doesn't necessarily make you not bi any more.
When I'm going out, I appear to be out. My straight male friends tend to greet me with a kiss. When I'm in office clothes, I barely trigger people's gothdar. (Which should be the next poll.)
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Date: 2006-01-23 06:16 pm (UTC)Elaboration on 'other': I'm not sure whether I'm gay or bi really. I'm almost exclusively attracted to women, but almost exclusively too terrified of rejection to ever try. Men on the other hand are usually easier to pull and sometimes look like women if you squint hard.
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Date: 2006-01-23 06:27 pm (UTC)You don't set off my gaydar at all, fwiw. Bidar by association with a lot of them, maybe.
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Date: 2006-01-23 06:28 pm (UTC)(Stop sniggering, you at the back there.)
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Date: 2006-01-23 06:29 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-01-23 06:42 pm (UTC)i got used to The Cock also, before realising my preference for girls.
so now... i can't go totally gay because there's something about The Cock that makes me melt...
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Date: 2006-01-23 06:48 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-01-23 07:08 pm (UTC)I'm off to Brighton in 5 years anyhoo, where I find everyone beautiful, and... fabulous!
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Date: 2006-01-23 08:11 pm (UTC)Now all I can smell is strawberry, and it's all your fault.
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Date: 2006-01-23 09:16 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-01-23 07:10 pm (UTC)I'm happy in my singleness anyway though so I'll wait til I get desperae for more than just a 8-weekly-shag ;o)
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Date: 2006-01-23 08:23 pm (UTC)Re: frequency
Date: 2006-01-24 05:22 pm (UTC)I can go for a very VERY long time though. But the offers come in here and there. So I go without by choice.
Last I'd heard you had a lovely lady and were happy. Hope you're not unhappy 'n' such, mate.
Come join me, be GAY and fruitful! Woohoo!
Nephilim
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Date: 2006-01-25 01:17 am (UTC)p.s. now you've got me wondering who this lady is - did you hear this anytime recently?
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Date: 2006-01-25 03:32 pm (UTC)Happier without the drugscene anyway...
I have DJed in quite a few places now but it's prolly someone else you've heard of because the people I DJ for never credit me anywhere no matter what input I've had into their night.
I'll shut up now. Had a very bad day at work. Hard work being a teacher. When you aren't actually one. Arseholes should stop giving me marking and so on...
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Date: 2006-01-23 09:57 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-01-23 09:59 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2006-01-23 10:05 pm (UTC)what I mean is that all too often there's not the sexual attraction for me to trannies due to...not sure what. probably not enough androidism for me. but then, david bowie creeped me out when he was ziggy.
so, I dunno! I just want a chick who looks like a chick, with pretty, real tits, but who also has a nice, fat cock. haha!
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Date: 2006-01-23 10:06 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2006-01-24 05:18 pm (UTC)(I'm a member of gaydar but it ain't been fruitful yet!)
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Date: 2006-01-24 05:27 pm (UTC)y'know? I'm more tolerant of extra weight on girls than on guys. wonder why that is?
go check out cowboy bebop. there's a great episode with a really hot sorta-tranny. that's what began my thinking about 'em.
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Date: 2006-01-23 07:06 pm (UTC)Yeah yeah, these long-haired goth boys, all look the same, etc.